it all started on the night of june 18, 2011

i worked, so was unable to attend the concert at the casino, joan jett and the black hearts. ray was joined by m and b, b's sister went in my place. i received a text message from ray, late, i was on the phone with a friend. the message stated, "i have soooooo much to talk to you about." so, when ray got home, he told me why b was so blunt and talkative about if we ever considered or would consider having children, when we were on our way to the britney spears concert, a few days before. ray said, "when m and b's sister left the casino buffet table to use the restroom, b asked me if i would consider having a baby with the two of them, so the four of us will be parents, m will be the birth mother, and me the father. "yeah!", ray's response to my response of my jaw hitting the floor and grinning with excitement! ray and i discussed all the questions we had. then ray sent m a text message the next morning requesting a day to get together to discuss everything! the set day was sunday! it all feels right at the meeting, the answer will be a yes. are ray and i really going to be parents? sharing responsibility with a lesbian couple, two fantastic women, the potential mothers to our potential child. life feels pretty good, right now!